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California’s New Joint Petition: A Game Changer for Divorcing with Respect
Picture this: John and Lisa walk into the courthouse for the first time with nerves jangling. They hope to end their marriage without it becoming a war. They want to keep things civil, maybe even friendly, for the sake of their family. Starting January 1, 2026,...
Co-parenting on Halloween: How not to make candy night into a nightmare
Co-parenting on Halloween can be tricky - or it can be a treat. It depends on you! Halloween has a way of sneaking up on even the most organized separated parents. Judges don’t usually mention it in custody orders, probably because it doesn’t come with a day off work....
What Mediators Wish Lawyers Knew
Lawyers and mediators may work in the same neighborhood, but let’s be honest, we don’t always speak the same language. I say that as someone who’s been on both sides of the table. Some of my best friends are lawyers. Heck, I am one. Still, after years in the trenches,...
Centered, Not Numb: The Real Art of Neutrality in Mediation
Every mediator recognizes this moment. Two people sit across from each other, tension thick in the air. Voices rise. Both look to you, hoping to catch a hint of where you stand. It’s a real test of composure, asking you to stay present and grounded, even when the...
California Premarital Agreements: Understanding Disclosure
California premarital agreements can be invalidated due to incomplete disclosure, but ensuring full transparency can make them enforceable. Under California Family Code §1615, both failure to disclose and unconscionability must be proven for a court to set aside an agreement, emphasizing the need for thorough and fair disclosure in these legal documents.
Becoming a Mediator: How to Decide If Mediation Is the Right Career for You
Learn about the benefits and challenges of becoming a mediator and what skills and qualifications you need Introduction Mediation is a process of resolving disputes between parties in a constructive and collaborative way. Mediators are neutral third...