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Family Lawyers: Don’t oversell your case with “retainer talk”

Family Lawyers: Don’t oversell your case with “retainer talk”

by Shawn Weber | Mar 6, 2023 | For Professionals

Some attorneys make the mistake of engaging in “retainer talk.” This has long been a practice among less scrupulous lawyers.  They try to convince their clients they have the best legal strategy- even if they don’t. However, over-promising with...
The Pros and Cons of the Different Styles of Mediation

The Pros and Cons of the Different Styles of Mediation

by Shawn Weber | Feb 25, 2023 | Conflict Resolution, For Professionals, Mediation

Mediation is a form of conflict resolution that involves a neutral third-party mediator who helps disputing parties reach a mutually acceptable agreement. The four different mediation styles range from less intervention to more intervention.  They are transformative,...
Practice Tips: Ways Attorneys Can Participate in Mediation

Practice Tips: Ways Attorneys Can Participate in Mediation

by Shawn Weber | Nov 12, 2021 | Attorneys, For Professionals, Mediation

I often see a lot of confusion from folks about how attorneys can participate in mediation.  There seems to be a false understanding that attorneys aren’t allowed into the hallowed halls of alternative dispute resolution.  However, nothing can be further from...
Practice Tip: Disclose all material facts and information in a California divorce, even if the other party is already aware.

Practice Tip: Disclose all material facts and information in a California divorce, even if the other party is already aware.

by weberfamlaw | Feb 12, 2021 | Finances, For Professionals

Let’s be clear everyone.  In a California divorce, the parties MUST, ABSOLUTELY, NO EXCEPTIONS disclose to one another all material facts and information about the finances. Yes.  Everything. The new case of Guttierez v. Guttierez (In re Marriage of Guttierez)...

Strategies for your family law case during the coronavirus pandemic

by Shawn Weber | Mar 16, 2020 | Attorneys, Conflict Resolution, Courts, For Professionals, Mediation

We are in strange times.  COVID-19 has generally caused a mass freak-out – some of it justified.  There has been a huge coronavirus impact on family law.  COVID-19 during divorce brings its own set of difficult challenges for lawyers and clients. There is a...

A Hippocratic Oath for Lawyers: Balancing Zealous Advocacy with Doing No Harm

by Shawn Weber | Feb 27, 2020 | Attorneys, For Professionals

for laWe’ve all made mistakes I have practiced in divorce industry for more than 20 years now. At the start of my career when I was young and naïve, I made my fair share of mistakes. I am not proud of these mistakes. But, I would like to think as a more seasoned...

Why you should watch “Marriage Story” on Netflix

by Shawn Weber | Jan 21, 2020 | divorce, For Professionals, Relationships

Most divorce professionals have “seen this movie before” in their own practices. As a divorce professional for the last 20 years, I’ve been involved in more than one ugly divorce as I am sure you can imagine. The stories are similar and seem to go...

Civility Lesson for Attorneys: Be careful which adjectives you use when describing a member of the profession.  It may not be taken well!

by Shawn Weber | Dec 6, 2019 | Dolphin Lawyer, For Professionals

In this day of #MeToo, one lawyer learned this lesson the hard way when he received a public hand slap from the Court of Appeal of the State of California because of “highly inappropriate” rhetoric he chose to employ in his appellate brief on a defamation case,...

Practice Tip: Be careful about the Health Insurance Deduction in DissoMaster!

by Shawn Weber | Oct 25, 2019 | Attorneys, For Professionals, Spousal Support, Taxation

We see many experienced family law specialists make this common DissoMaster* mistake with the health insurance deduction. When entering the Health Insurance deduction in DissoMaster,* be sure to drill down.  There are three options and they make a difference:...

Seven Tips to Help Clients Prepare for Mediation

by Shawn Weber | Aug 9, 2019 | Attorneys, Conflict Resolution, For Professionals, Mediation

So you have the big mediation date planned.  You hope the mediator will be able to work whatever magic she has so you can move the case to settlement and put the case to bed.  You’ve prepared yourself.  You know the law.  You have your arguments ready.  You’ve done...
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