Education & Training

Learn practical skills to guide families through conflict with confidence and compassion.

40-Hour Divorce Mediation Training

Learn divorce mediation in a practical, hands-on program taught by veteran mediator and trainer Shawn Weber, JD., CLS-F*. Across eight interactive Zoom sessions, you will learn the art and craft of guiding couples through conflict toward resolution.

You will learn to manage real-world conflict with calm, clarity, and compassion while building a professional practice grounded in skill, ethics, and peace.

March 11 – 14 and

March 18 – 21, 2026

8:30 a.m.–2:00 p.m. PT
Live on Zoom

Two 15-minute breaks each day
40 total hours of instruction
Certificate of completion provided.
Space is limited to keep sessions interactive.
California MCLE and Mental Health CEU approval  pending.

This Divorce Mediation Training Is Ideal For…

      • Attorneys
      • Financial professionals
      • Mental health professionals
      • Those seeking to meet mediation training requirements for Collaborative Practice groups
      • Anyone adding or refining a divorce mediation practice
      • Those looking for a 40-hour mediation training

What You Will Learn

This 40-hour mediation training covers the full scope of divorce mediation practice, blending core foundations with advanced tools and applied ethics. Topics include:

Foundations of Mediation Practice

Screening & Preparation

Exploration & Fact Gathering

Communication & Facilitation Skills

Managing Emotions & High Conflict Cases

Caucus & Breakout Strategy

Negotation & Problem Solving

Cultural Competence & Bias Awareness

Financial & Parenting Issues

Drafting Durable Agreements

Technology in Mediation

The Sevin Dolphin Core Competencies

Daily Mock Mediations

What You Will Experience

An interactive, immersive multi-media and fun 40-hour mediation training event rooted in practical application through role playing, Q&A, lecture, and discussion.  You will learn and be able to immediately apply a unique mediation structure, and the tools and techniques that go with it. Weber Dispute Resolution provides the participants with a full color handbook, that includes court forms, sample fee agreements, checklists, mediator specific ethical standards, and significant references relevant books and organizations that you can use right away. You will make a connection with the other trainees and gain a new community for support and networking.

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Cancellation & Refund Policy

Additional Divorce Mediation
Training Course Information.

Satisfies Collaborative Group Requirements

This training satisfies the requirement in the IACP Minimum Standards for Collaborative Practitioners for “[a]t least one thirty hour training in client centered, facilitative conflict resolution, of the kind typically taught in mediation training (interest-based, narrative or transformative mediation programs).” (See IACP Minium Standards for Collaborative Practitioners at Sections 2.3, 3.4 and 4.5 [adopted 2004 and revised 2014].)

The International Academy of Collaborative Professionals sets standards for training, trainers and practitioners. IACP does not certify or endorse specific trainings. This training program meets the standards of IACP. These standards can be found at www.collaborativepractice.com.

FAQs

Is this live or recorded?
This is a live training only. There will be no recording.

Will I get a certificate?
Yes. You will receive a certificate for 40 hours upon completion.

Can I miss a day?
Attendance at all sessions is strongly encouraged for continuity and skill practice.

Do I need to be a lawyer?
No. The course is designed for attorneys, financial professionals, and mental health professionals.

Schedule Overview

40-hour mediation training in eight live sessions on Zoom, five hours each including breaks.
March 10–13 and March 17–20, 2026
8:30 a.m. – 1:30 p.m. Pacific Time

Session 1 – Conflict Theory, Role of the Mediator, ADR Core Competencies

8:30–8:45 Welcome, framing, opening quote
8:45–9:05 Learning objectives and session roadmap
9:05–9:45 Lecture and discussion: conflict basics (issues, escalation, power/rights/interests)
9:45–10:20 Lecture and discussion: Compass Model
10:20–10:35 Group exercise: responding to conflict
10:35–10:50 Break
10:50–11:20 Lecture: mediator roles and role confusion
11:20–11:55 Lecture: ADR spectrum and mediation styles
11:55–12:30 Exercise: mediator “lane” scenarios
12:30–12:45 Break
12:45–1:15 Lecture: ADR core competencies
1:15–1:40 Lecture: Dolphin core competencies
1:40–1:55 Reflection writing exercise
1:55–2:00 Wrap-up

Session 2 – Stage 1: Setting the Foundation, Stage 2: Understanding & Information Gathering (R.O.C.K.)

8:30–8:45 Welcome, recap, framing
8:45–9:00 Learning objectives and session roadmap
9:00–9:40 Lecture: Stage 1 overview and process design
9:40–10:25 Mock: Foundation Stage (participant exercise)
10:25–10:40 Break
10:40–11:20 Lecture: Stage 2 overview and the R.O.C.K. framework
11:20–12:10 Exercise: R.O.C.K. skill reps (participant exercise)
12:10–12:25 Break
12:25–1:10 Lecture: intake, screening, and readiness
1:10–1:50 Exercise: intake and screening scenarios
1:50–2:00 Wrap-up

Session 3 – Stage 2: Understanding & Information Gathering (R.O.C.K.) (Cont’d.),

8:30–8:45 Welcome, recap, framing
8:45–9:00 Learning objectives and session roadmap
9:00–9:40 Lecture: deepening Stage 2, agenda building, and information management
9:40–10:25 Mock: Stage 2 (participant exercise)
10:25–10:40 Break
10:40–11:20 Lecture: difficult dynamics and staying in the mediator lane
11:20–12:10 Exercise: managing conflict during Stage 2
12:10–12:25 Break
12:25–1:10 Lecture: neutrality, bias, and self-awareness in information gathering
1:10–1:50 Exercise: neutrality and bias scenarios
1:50–2:00 Wrap-up

Session 4 – Managing Subsequent Sessions, Stage 3: Negotiation & Decision Making

8:30–8:45 Welcome, recap, framing
8:45–9:00 Learning objectives and session roadmap
9:00–9:40 Lecture: managing subsequent sessions and keeping momentum
9:40–10:25 Mock: managing a follow-up session (participant exercise)
10:25–10:40 Break
10:40–11:20 Lecture: Stage 3 negotiation and decision-making tools
11:20–12:10 Exercise: option generation and reality testing
12:10–12:25 Break
12:25–1:10 Lecture: evaluative techniques and ethical guardrails
1:10–1:50 Exercise: evaluative technique scenarios
1:50–2:00 Wrap-up

Session 5 – Core Communication Skills

8:30–8:45 Welcome, recap, framing
8:45–9:00 Learning objectives and session roadmap
9:00–9:40 Lecture: communication fundamentals for mediators
9:40–10:25 Skills lab: listening, summarizing, reframing (participant exercise)
10:25–10:40 Break
10:40–11:20 Lecture: questions, pacing, and managing emotional intensity
11:20–12:10 Skills lab: practice reps
12:10–12:25 Break
12:25–1:10 Lecture: conflict interventions and keeping people productive
1:10–1:50 Skills lab: high-conflict communication scenarios
1:50–2:00 Wrap-up

Session 6 – Advanced Tools & Complex Dynamics, Breakout Sessions

8:30–8:45 Welcome, recap, framing
8:45–9:00 Learning objectives and session roadmap
9:00–9:40 Lecture: advanced tools, complex dynamics, and mediator self-regulation
9:40–10:25 Mock: difficult dynamics with breakout strategy (participant exercise)
10:25–10:40 Break
10:40–11:20 Lecture: caucus, breakouts, and reality testing
11:20–12:10 Exercise: breakout planning and execution
12:10–12:25 Break
12:25–1:10 Lecture: reluctant participants, power imbalance, and pre-mediation screening
1:10–1:50 Exercise: advanced scenario work
1:50–2:00 Wrap-up

Session 7 – Domestic Violence, Evaluation Techniques, Reluctant …Dynamics, Parenting Issues, Pre-mediation Consulting & Screening

8:30–8:45 Welcome, recap, framing
8:45–9:00 Learning objectives and session roadmap
9:00–9:40 Lecture: domestic violence considerations and screening
9:40–10:25 Exercise: safety and screening scenarios
10:25–10:40 Break
10:40–11:20 Lecture: evaluation techniques and ethical boundaries
11:20–12:10 Exercise: reluctant participant dynamics
12:10–12:25 Break
12:25–1:10 Lecture: parenting issues and child-focused practice
1:10–1:50 Exercise: parenting mediation scenarios
1:50–2:00 Wrap-up

Session 8 – Financial Issues, Stage 4: Finalizing the Agreement,…king with Other Professionals, Capstone: Fishbowl Mock Mediation

8:30–8:45 Welcome, recap, framing
8:45–9:00 Learning objectives and session roadmap
9:00–9:40 Lecture: financial issues in divorce mediation and working with professionals
9:40–10:25 Exercise: financial scenario and process management
10:25–10:40 Break
10:40–11:20 Lecture: Stage 4 and finalizing agreements (CRAFT)
11:20–12:10 Exercise: agreement testing and drafting issues
12:10–12:25 Break
12:25–1:50 Capstone: fishbowl mock mediation (participant exercise)
1:50–2:00 Wrap-up

Educational Goals

To give you practical experience for addressing any style and degree of conflict related to divorce and family law using unique and proven mediation tools and techniques.  This is achieved by conducting a basic divorce mediation from start to finish applying Weber Dispute Resoltion’s innovative 5-Stage Mediation Process.  In this 40-hour mediation training, you will learn how to diffuse and cool high conflict situations in mere moments.

Learning Objectives
  • Explain the structure and stages of the divorce mediation process, including appropriate process design for family law matters.

  • Apply core mediation principles, including neutrality, informed consent, and client self-determination, within divorce and family conflict contexts.

  • Identify and manage ethical role boundaries when serving as a mediator, including distinctions between mediation, therapy, legal advice, and advocacy.

  • Use structured mediation tools and techniques to facilitate productive dialogue, manage high-conflict dynamics, and support durable agreements.

  • Recognize and address the impact of bias, power imbalances, and emotional dynamics on the mediation process and mediator decision-making.

  • Demonstrate professional judgment in complex mediation scenarios, including multi-issue disputes involving parenting, finances, and family restructuring.

Refund & Cancellation Policy

Registration cancellations must be submitted in writing to the course provider. Cancellations received at least fourteen (14) calendar days prior to the scheduled course start date are eligible for a full refund, minus any nonrefundable processing fees.

Cancellations received fewer than fourteen (14) calendar days before the course start date are not eligible for a refund; however, participants may request to transfer their registration to a future offering of the same course, subject to availability, within twelve (12) months of the original course date.

No refunds or credits are issued for partial attendance, missed sessions, or failure to attend a course for which the participant is registered.

In the event that Weber Dispute Resolution cancels or reschedules a course, registered participants will be offered the option of a full refund or transfer of registration to a future course date.

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Participant Complaint and Grievance Procedure

Weber Dispute Resolution maintains a written grievance procedure to ensure that participant concerns are addressed in a reasonable, ethical, and timely manner.

Participants who wish to submit a complaint or grievance related to a continuing education course may do so by submitting the concern in writing by email to the course provider. Grievances should include the participant’s name, course title, course date(s), and a brief description of the issue.

Upon receipt of a grievance, the provider will acknowledge receipt by email within two (2) business days. The Program Administrator will review the grievance, including any relevant course records or materials, and may consult with course instructors as appropriate.

A written response addressing the grievance will be provided within ten (10) business days of acknowledgment. If additional time is required to complete the review, the participant will be notified of the anticipated response timeframe.

All grievances and responses are documented and retained in accordance with continuing education record retention requirements. Reasonable efforts will be made to resolve concerns in a manner consistent with professional, ethical, and regulatory standards.

Accommodations and Special Needs Policy

Weber Dispute Resolution is committed to providing an inclusive learning environment and to making reasonable accommodations for participants with disabilities or other special needs.

Participants who require accommodations to fully participate in a course are encouraged to submit a written request in advance of the course start date. Requests should describe the nature of the accommodation sought and may be submitted by email to info@weberdisputeresolution.com. Advance notice helps ensure that reasonable accommodations can be evaluated and arranged in a timely manner.

Participants who have questions about accommodations or the request process may also contact Weber Dispute Resolution by phone at 858-410-0144 for additional information.

Accommodations will be provided when feasible and consistent with the nature of the course, delivery format, and applicable professional and regulatory standards. For live Zoom trainings, accommodations may include reasonable adjustments related to course materials, communication access, or instructional format, as appropriate.

All accommodation requests will be handled respectfully and confidentially. Weber Dispute Resolution will make reasonable efforts to support participant access while maintaining the integrity of course requirements and learning objectives.

Our Trainers

Shawn Weber, JD, CLS-F Mediation Trainer

Shawn Weber, JD, CLS-F*

 

Shawn Weber is one of California’s leading voices in the field of divorce mediation and Collaborative Practice. With more than 25 years of experience, Shawn is recognized as a thought leader and trainer who has shaped how family law professionals approach conflict. Known for his distinctive “dolphin” approach—a philosophy grounded in empathy, creativity, and peacemaking—he teaches mediators how to bring compassion and clarity to even the most difficult cases.

A recognized expert in Consensual Dispute Resolution, Shawn combines his expertise with a dynamic, engaging teaching style that merges theory with real-world practice. Shawn has trained and mentored mediators from across the United States. His teaching style blends deep legal knowledge with human insight and humor, making complex ideas accessible and practical. Students describe his trainings as transformative, blending professional skill with personal growth.

Shawn is the founder and lead mediator at Weber Dispute Resolution. He is a two-time President of Collaborative Practice San Diego, a local organization promoting consensual dispute resolution in San Diego County, California.  Shawn  is a former President and board member of Collaborative Practice California, a statewide organization supporting consensual dispute resolution throughout the State of California. A father of five, Shawn brings deep empathy and firsthand understanding of family dynamics to his work, offering clients a calm and insightful guide through one of life’s most challenging transitions.

Robin Duboe Seigle, JD

Robin Duboe Seigle, JD

 

Robin Duboe Seigle is a civil mediator, mediation consultant, and coach for individuals contemplating or beginning the divorce process. She worked for the National Conflict Resolution Center (NCRC) from July 1989 through July 2014 as a Public Relations Coordinator, Mediation Trainer, Court Program Coordinator, and Director of NCRC’s Divorce Mediation Group. Prior to working for NCRC, Robin became a volunteer mediator in 1984, a mediation trainer in 1985, and a large group facilitator in 1987. She has been a member of the California Bar since 1977 and is currently inactive. Robin earned her J.D. degree from Loyola Law School in Los Angeles and her B.A. in Psychology from UCLA.

Robin learned early in her law career that mediation was a preferred approach for resolving disputes. Litigation focuses on a win‑lose outcome, while mediation allows parties to gain something through a negotiated process. It is cost‑effective, efficient, and, in divorce cases, beneficial for families. A co-founder of Family Resolution Institute, Robin trained alongside Shawn Weber for many years, bringing warmth, skill, and a deep belief in the power of mediated resolution.

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