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Dating After Divorce, Just Say No…For Now
This is an excellent suggestion. So many folks jump right into dating. As a divorce lawyer, I know that this can lead to repeat business for me. It is much smarter to make sure you are ready before you start dating. Also, don't forget your kids. They may not be ready...
Behavioral Finance – Great Blog
My friends and colleagues, Justin Reckers, CFP, CDFA and Robert Simon, Ph.D., are doing some great work in the emerging field of Applied Behavioral Finance. I just attended an excellent seminar produced by the dynamic duo at a recent general meeting of the...
Helping Children Survive Divorce: The Myth of the Tough Boy
Excellent article. I have several cases right now where I believe the boys involved are being put in the middle of things. The parents universally say that the kid is a boy and can therefore handle it. I feel terrible for these little guys. The worst I heard was a...
Mind Your Ps and Qs: The Value of Communicating Politely With Your Ex
It really does matter what words you choose when communicating with an ex spouse- particularly when you are coparenting. It can be the difference between a peaceful and happy existence or one filled with acrimony and post-judgment litigation. Read the Article at...
High Conflict Divorce Tip #2: Avoid Reactivity
As the next installment in my series of tips for surviving a high conflict divorce, I want to focus on the issue of reactivity-or perhaps better said, over-reactivity. Here is an email exchange that is very typical: Email #1: Susie, I was hoping to take little Johnny...
Video: When You Are Old and Grey – Tom Lehrer. This song I think explains a lot of my cases.
I really got a kick out of this old Tom Lehrer song, "When You Are Old and Grey." It seems that I have had a number of cases where folks may have lost their agility. 😉 http://youtu.be/8NOZH0y7VxE