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Don’t Panic: How to Stay Calm During Divorce Mediation by Trusting the Process

Fans of The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy know that the guide offers one essential piece of advice in large, friendly letters: Don’t Panic. This is especially important when you’re wondering how to stay calm during divorce mediation. It is good advice for travelers...

When the Room Tilts: Mediator Self-Regulation and the Still Center

A session can start calmly and shift fast. This is where mediator self-regulation becomes crucial. You have been there. The mood of the session changes. Someone's voice goes up. An attorney interrupts. A client shuts down or floods. The air in the room thickens. And...

What Is a Gavron Warning? What California Divorcing Spouses Need to Know

If you are going through a divorce in California and spousal support is on the table, you should understand what a Gavron warning is. Whether you expect to pay support or receive it, this concept affects how long support lasts and what the court expects from each...
JK Divorce Entrance Dance

Ok, we have all seen the wedding dance.  It went viral on youtube a year or so ago. Well, have you ever seen their divorce? [youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zbr2ao86ww0&w=640&h=390] http://www.bravewebermack.com

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Is the economic recovery increasing the divorce rate?

Here is an interesting article from the Orlando Sentinel. Apparently with the improving economy, people are feeling freer to get divorced.  That seems counter-intuitive to me. One would think that a bad economy would encourage divorce, but many of my colleagues have...

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Court: No gay marriages in CA during appeal

It seems that the gay marriage litigation will continue.  The ninth circuit court of appeals refused to allow same-sex marriages to take place in California while it considers the constitutionality of the current state ban.  I imagine that the 9th Circuit, no matter...

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“Whitest Kids You Know” divorce skit

Here is a funny video about divorce from "The Whitest Kids You Know." Perhaps we should all take a moment and consider the effects divorce can have on children... [youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=57riRQF-8Rc&w=480&h=390] www.BraveWeberMack.com

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Will He Let You Move?

Good article with tough questions about move-away cases. I note that in California­, it has gotten a lot harder for a primary parent to move than it was a few years ago. I am involved in a case right now where the primary question is the detriment issue. I feel bad...

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The Klingon Divorce: Lessons to Be Learned

I came across this funny video on YouTube.  It strangely reminded me of a divorce mediation I conducted. [youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iBLkOMvidwo&w=480&h=390] The caption read, "N'Gos tlhogh cha! A simple procedure... This would save millions in...

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