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I want to end my marriage, but my spouse won’t grant me a divorce.

Your spouse says they won't agree to a divorce. Maybe they said it outright. Maybe they just refuse to engage. Either way, you need to know something: in California, you do not need their permission. California is a no-fault state. The law does not require both...

The Tug Away From Mediator Neutrality

A strange moment can happen in mediation when the mediator neutrality starts slipping toward one side. The shift usually begins quietly. One person in the room may start making more sense to you. Another may seem more emotionally grounded. At times, somebody reminds...

When to Interrupt in Mediation and When to Let It Run

Knowing when to interrupt in mediation is a real judgment call. This guide shows how to do it with purpose, avoid reactive mistakes, and keep the process on track.
How to convince your spouse to mediate
How to convince your spouse to mediate

If you're interested in using mediation to divorce but your spouse is not willing, there are some things you can do to convince your spouse to mediate. Here are seven tips to help you convince your spouse to do mediation: 1. Discuss the benefits of mediation. Before...

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Six Toxic Words to Ruin Your Mediation
Six Toxic Words to Ruin Your Mediation

When it comes to settling a conflict through the mediation process, you want to make sure every word you use is meaningful and purposeful. However, for those who are not familiar with the world of mediation, there are some words which can have a catastrophic effect on...

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