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When to Interrupt in Mediation and When to Let It Run

Knowing when to interrupt in mediation is a real judgment call. This guide shows how to do it with purpose, avoid reactive mistakes, and keep the process on track.

The Top Ten Ways Practitioners Screw Up Collaborative Divorce Cases

I have a lot of respect for collaborative professionals. Most people who choose this model are trying to do right by their clients. I still see the same problems show up again and again. There are others, but these are the ones I see most often. These are the top ten...

The Case for Teamwork in Family Law Practice

Why Family Law Burnout Happens Burnout in family law generally shows up as overload, with too many roles, too many expectations, and not enough structure around who is responsible for what. Reducing burnout in family law starts with how the work is structured, not...
The Non-Custodial Mother

Interestin­g article about non-custod­ial women. As a family law attorney, I am meeting more and more women who choose this arrangment for various reasons. It is still true that many women feel stigmatize­d. I find this phenominum similar to the visceral reaction that...

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I have a successful business. I built it myself with years of my hard work. My husband didn’t do anything to help. Shouldn’t the business be awarded to me as separate property when we divorce?

"Should" is simply the wrong question to ask when considering whether you have a community property business. The right question has more to do with what "is" under the law. California is a community property state. This means that anything that was acquired through...

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