Study: Divorce harder on children than a parent’s death, shortens children’s own lives | Deseret News

This is a link to a fascinating study about the effect of divorce on children.  I would think that many of these negative effects could be miniumized if the divorcing parents worked more cooperatively.  I would think that methods of alternate dispute resolution such as collaborative divorce or mediation would go a long way in reducing the stress and long term effects on children.

Here is a link to the article:  Study: Divorce harder on children than a parent’s death, shortens children’s own lives | Deseret News.

Collaborative Practice Public Service Announcement

Here is an excellent video with information about Collaborative Practice.  I am a firm believer that Collaborative Practice is a better way to divorce.  By attorneys, mental health professionals and financial professionals working together, a couple facing a divorce stands a much better chance of transitioning their family in a respectful way that is better for the kids and the couple’s finances.

For more information about Collaborative Practice in California, go to www.cpcal.com.

To schedule a consultation for a Collaborative Divorce, contact attorney Shawn Weber at 858-345-1616 or visit our website at www.BraveWeberMack.com for more information.

Working With Attorneys in Mediation


This is an excellent article about how to work with advising attorneys during mediation. I always say, make sure your attorney understand­s clearly at the first consultati­on that you are not looking for full blown representa­tion– just advice. I also agree with the comment that a collaborat­ive lawyer is the best candidate. Collaborat­ive lawyers through their training “get it” that you are trying to stay out of court. Remember, your attorney works for you and you are the boss. Don’t let an attorney talk you out of a settlement if you believe it is right for your family. You only need the attorney to make sure that your decisions are informed. You are a grown up, so if after conferring with your attorney, you believe that your choices are right, then follow your gut. You have to live with your choices, not your attorney.
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No Royal Prenuptial Agreement For Prince William And Kate Middleton


Kate and William have no prenup! I don’t know how things work in Britain, but according to California law, any assets currently owned by William or later to be inherited would be his separate property and not subject to division in the event of a divorce anyway. Perhaps William simply doesn’t need it. Of course, alimony is a whole other story.
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