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Mind Your Ps and Qs: The Value of Communicating Politely With Your Ex

by Shawn Weber | Aug 3, 2011 | Children, Conflict Resolution, custody, divorce, High Conflict, Marriage, mental health, parenting, Relationships

It really does matter what words you choose when communicat­ing with an ex spouse- particular­ly when you are coparentin­g. It can be the difference between a peaceful and happy existence or one filled with acrimony and post-judgm­ent litigation­. Read the Article at...

High Conflict Divorce Tip #2: Avoid Reactivity

by Shawn Weber | Jul 8, 2011 | Children, Coach, Conflict Resolution, custody, divorce, Email, High Conflict, Marriage, Mediation, mental health, Relationships

As the next installment in my series of tips for surviving a high conflict divorce, I want to focus on the issue of reactivity-or perhaps better said, over-reactivity. Here is an email exchange that is very typical: Email #1: Susie, I was hoping to take little Johnny...

Video: When You Are Old and Grey – Tom Lehrer. This song I think explains a lot of my cases.

by Shawn Weber | Jul 1, 2011 | divorce, divorce humor, Humor, Marriage, Relationships

I really got a kick out of this old Tom Lehrer song, “When You Are Old and Grey.”  It seems that I have had a number of cases where folks may have lost their agility.  ...

Who Smiles and Who Cries When They Divorce?

by Shawn Weber | Jun 30, 2011 | Children, Coach, divorce, Marriage, mental health, Relationships

This is a good artocle published by Judith Wallerstein, Ph.D. As a divorce attorney, I have seen a great many cases where one person wants out and the other wants to stay. Usually the person who wants to stay is stunned and in denial that the divorce is even...

High Conflict Divorce Tip #1: Boundaries

by Shawn Weber | May 25, 2011 | Attorneys, Children, divorce, domestic violence, High Conflict, Marriage, Relationships

In my career as a divorce professional, I have developed a name for myself as an attorney who knows how to guide clients through a high conflict divorce. My business partners observe that I have some of the craziest cases they have seen in their careers. Clients and...

Adultery: Should You Contact A Cheater’s Spouse?

by Shawn Weber | May 21, 2011 | divorce, Marriage, Relationships

Adultery can be a terrible betrayal, but I completely agree with the sentiment expressed in this article. If you go and interfere in someone else’s marriage, you are simply making a bad situation worse. The best thing you can do is stay away. Read the Article at...
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